Sunday, April 3, 2016

History of cross-dressing

History of cross-dressing 

CW-en.wikipedia.org

Cross-dressing has been practiced throughout much of recorded history and in many societies. There are many examples in Greek,Norse, and Hindu mythology. A reasonable number of historical figures are known to have cross-dressed to varying degrees and for a variety of reasons. There is a rich history of cross-dressing found in folklore, literature, theater, and music. Examples includeKabuki and Korean shamanism.
Frances Benjamin Johnston (right) poses with two cross-dressing friends, the "lady" is identified by Johnston as the illustrator Mills Thompson
Drag queens are a form of cross-dressing as performance art

Varieties

There are many different kinds of cross-dressing and many different reasons why an individual might engage in cross-dressing behavior.[2] Some people cross-dress as a matter of comfort or style, out of personal preference for clothing associated with the opposite sex. In this case, a person's cross-dressing may or may not be apparent to other people. Some people cross-dress to shock others or challenge social norms.
Gender disguise has been used by women and girls to pass as male in society and by men and boys to pass themselves off as female. Gender disguise has also been used as a plot device in storytelling and is a recurring motif in literature, theater, and film. It is a common plot device in narrative ballads.[3] Historically, some women have cross-dressed to take up male-dominated or male-exclusive professions, such as military service. Conversely, some men have cross-dressed to escape from mandatory military service[4] or as a disguise to assist in political or social protest, as men did in the Rebecca Riots.
Single-sex theatrical troupes often have some performers who cross-dress to play roles written for members of the opposite sex (travesti). Cross-dressing, particularly the depiction of males wearing dresses, is often used for comic effect onstage and onscreen.
Drag is a special form of performance art based on the act of cross-dressing. A drag queen is usually a male-bodied person who performs as an exaggeratedly feminine character, in heightened costuming sometimes consisting of a showy dress, high-heeled shoes, obvious makeup, and wig. A drag queen may imitate famous female film or pop-music stars. A faux queen is a female-bodied person employing the same techniques.
drag king is a counterpart of the drag queen but usually for much different audiences, and is defined as a female-bodied person who adopts a masculine persona in performance or imitates a male film or pop-music star. Some female-bodied people undergoing gender reassignment therapy also self-identify as drag kings although this use of "drag king" would generally be considered inaccurate.
A transvestic fetishist wearing latex clothes
transvestic fetishist is a person (typically a heterosexual male) who cross-dresses as part of asexual fetish.
The term underdressing is used by male cross-dressers to describe wearing female undergarments under their male clothes. The famous low-budget filmmaker Edward D. Wood, Jr.said he often wore women's underwear under his military uniform during World War II.
Some people who cross-dress may endeavor to project a complete impression of belonging to another gender, including mannerisms, speech patterns, and emulation of sexual characteristics. This is referred to as passing or "trying to pass" depending how successful the person is. An observer who sees through the cross-dresser's attempt to pass is said to have reador clocked them. There are videos, books, and magazines on how a man may look more like a woman.[5]
Female masking is a form of cross-dressing in which men wear masks that present them as female.[6]
Sometimes either member of a heterosexual couple will crossdress in order to arouse the other. For example, the male might wear skirts or lingerie and/or the female will wear boxers or other male clothing. (See also forced feminization)
Others may choose to take a mixed approach, adopting some feminine traits and some masculine traits in their appearance. For instance, a man might wear both a dress and a beard. This is sometimes known as genderfuck.

Why Do I Crossdress?

Why Do I Crossdress? Pondering the Imponderable

11 March 2016      CW- http://frockmagazine.com 
I have literally been inundated by requests; wait no, that is not really true, but one or two people may have asked me why I crossdress so I thought I would devote some time to answering the question as best I can.  This is a very difficult question to answer simply because I do not truly know the answer.  There are all sorts of reasons ranging from the superficial, to the very deep and it is quite hard to determine what is really going on in my mind.
For the purposes of this article I will confine myself to the conscious reasons for crossdressing and I will try to avoid any sub-conscious, hidden or whatever reasons.  I will also not delve into sexuality and associated topics.  Not because I am afraid to do so, but because I am trying to write an 800 word article, rather than an 800 page book!
It is true that many crossdressers confidently declare that women’s clothing is more comfortable.  This is often patently not true.  Not only is women’s clothing made for women and thus necessitates squishing and squashing various bits of the male anatomy into frankly unpleasant shapes, thus creating some discomfort, but it is often uncomfortable for women too (yes I am looking at you corsetry).  However, I have found myself saying that I feel more comfortable dressed.  What is going on here?  How can an otherwise (mostly) intelligent and (generally) sane person say that wearing stilettos, a bra, a g-string, stockings and a tight dress that barely covers your bum is ‘comfortable’?  Well, because itis comfortable (corsetry notwithstanding).
The fact is that I feel better when I am dressed in this way than I feel dressed in male clothing.  This seems insane.  So why is this? All that I can say is that I feel morecongruent when dressed in women’s clothing.  The clothing seems to match my self-image better, I am somehow more comfortable, more me.  I am able to access my innate femininity better, I am better able to express my femininity and this juts feels, somehow,right.  I am able to express myself better, I can be sexy, attractive, pretty and playful.  I do not feel this way if I am in men’s clothes.  In men’s clothes I am serious, boring, unattractive and somber.  This is not to say that I cannot be these things when in women’s clothes, but I feel more complete and more completely able to express more of myself in women’s clothes.
Women’s clothes are also usually more sensual than men’s clothes.  There is a wider range fo fabrics and fabric designs that result in a far wider sensory experience.  Men’s clothes tend to be cotton or wool.  They are generally ‘harder’ fabrics that whilst providing warmth and coverage do little else (except maybe scratch).  Women’s clothes come in a variety of materials (cotton, wool, nylon, viscose, lycra, silk, satin, velvet etc) and are made differently they are thinner, softer and include lace, stretch fabrics etc.  This means wearing women’s clothes is a sensual experience. Add to this the heightened sensation your skin has when shaved and I am surprised there aren’t more crossdressers.  Just walking down the street can be a multi-sensory experience (with different tactile senses, sounds, sights and even smells coming your way from the clothes) depending on the way you are dressed (note I am explicitly excluding the additional impact that some crossdressers may feel as a result of fetishising the sensation of women’s clothing).
I also think that my body actually looks better in women’s clothing than men’s.  I have quite refined features, my ankles and wrists are small (even for a woman) and as a result I sometimes look silly in men’s clothes.  A large man’s watch dwarfs my wrist.  Clumpy work shoes look ridiculous on a delicate well turned out ankle.  On top of that I think my legs are my best feature and it is practically impossible to ‘showcase’ legs in men’s clothes other than running shorts or a Speedo.  I think I would get some strange looks if I arrived at work in a Speedo (would I get stranger looks arriving at work in a pencil skirt? Moot point, perhaps).
The feeling of congruency is important to me.  It feels good to sense that your outward expression fits the inner you.  I am simply not able to achieve this when dressed in men’s clothes.  This I think drives some of the enjoyment I feel when dressed.  So, why do I dress?  Because it is fun, I enjoy it and it fits who I am.
Why do you dress the way you do?

Saturday, April 2, 2016

ශ්‍රී ලංකා හරස් ඇදුම් විලාසිතාකරුවන්ගේ සංගමය

ශ්‍රී ලංකා හරස් ඇදුම් විලාසිතාකරුවන්ගේ සංගමය

ශ්‍රී ලංකා හරස් විලාසිතා කරුවන්ගේ සංගමය යනු හුදෙක්ම හරස් විලාසිතා කරුවන් (Cross Dresser) සමග සම්බන්ධතා ගොඩනගා ගැනීමට හා තම සිත් තුළ බොහෝ කලක් තිස්සේ හිරවී තිබූ තම අදහස් හුවමාරු කර ගැනීම උදෙසා සත්‍ය හරස් විලාසිතා කරුවන් (Cross Dresser) විසින් ගොඩනගා ගන්නා ලද ස්වේච්ඡා සංවිධානයකි. මෙහි කිසිම මූල්‍ය හෝ ව්‍යාපාරික අපේක්ෂාවක් නොමැත..


සැ.යු.- මෙහි සාමාජිකත්වය ලබා ගත හක්කේ සත්‍යම හරස් විලාසිතා කරුවන් (Cross Dressers) හට පමණක් බැවින් ව්‍යාජ අයවලුන් සම්බන්ධ නොවන්න.